tonight, i see a on-line friend. i know he is a postgraduates. and i want to wright sth in english

about psychology. i need some hints or inspirations.then i talked to him in english.we chat in english.

in fact what i said he was't interested in at all. and suddenly he told me that he needed a girlfriend to

replace his ex-girlfriend's impression in his heart. i was really bombared,then i made some guess about

what he would say.i meant to prevent sth undesirable happening. then i suggest him to think about other

girls surrounding him. this action made me feel that i was a little bit guilty.in fact not. i really don't want .

oh i am tired. he is smart. no awkwards happened then. he was bussy with other things,and say byebye

to me.

he was failed in his ex-girlfriend,and wants a try on the second. if he succeeds tofind another body,

 no matter whether the two girl can really be on the same walks of life. maybe in fact the two are just

different and never exist some points of superior to others. however, in the boys heart, the two are

inequal,and the former weighs more than the later.

this makes me think of a classical lines in A Beautiful Mind , " if we all go for the blonde and block each

other, not a single one of us is going to get her. so then we go for her friends, but they will all give us the

cold shoulder because nobody likes to be second choice. but what if no one goes for the blonde? we don't

get in each other's way and we don't insult the other girls.that's only way we win.